Luke 22:32
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Very early on in my relationship with Rex, I disclosed something that was worrisome to me: I had not failed in life.
That sounds crazy, right? Everyone fails. Everyone is dished up a bowl of disappointment at some point. Right?
That sounds crazy, right? Everyone fails. Everyone is dished up a bowl of disappointment at some point. Right?
Every grade I wanted to make as a child, every job I aspired for, every goal I set, every peronal record physically, I was able to meet. If I could make a list and plot out my path, the outcome was pretty clear, for the most part: I would succeed.
Epic Fail
This statement holds true for every instance in my life except one: relationships.
Talk about epic fail? My Dad says I always "land on my feet." My friends think I should be a character in a warped Lifetime movie, perhaps at some point adapted for Broadway and then a nice book deal. The stories of the ridiculous relationships are unending. And completely, utterly unfulfilling. Or tragic in some instances.
And God? Well, perhaps He has been praying for me, that my faith should not fail and that I will return to Him.
You see, I reflected on this recently. What was I missing? Why would all the tangible, well-considered goals in my life be met with success and my relationships be so...unsuccessful?
Sneak By?
Perhaps we can sneak by on the jobs, the careers, the 10K times, the elections to Board positions, being hired on as the choice out of 16 candidates for the job. Perhaps the details, the body fat percentages, the number of pull ups, the black and white accomplishments in life, will come to us without Him. I DO believe that He is essential for success in my life. But are the "accomplishments" the true measure of success? Those are the questions we have to ask ourselves.
"But without love. We have nothing."
The relationships in our lives must have Him for success. If He is not the focal point, if we do not cleave to Him in the presence of a relationships, in the request for a life-long partner, I believe that over, and over and OVER again, we will fail. I have failed.
I cling to the notion that God has gifted me with this relationship. Will I seek Him in it? Will you seek Him in yours? I believe every step we take towards Him with these precious partners, the closer we are to success.